Among her accomplishments in film working with Cary grant and Duke Ellington, she had a quick wit and was well known for her double entendres, on and off stage. Still, his creative genius shone through, inspiring generations of readers and poetry-lovers all over.
Seen it all over Facebook and on greeting cards. Bil Keane, was an American cartoonist who is known mostly for his work on the long-running newspaper comic The Family Circus. The mantra to live by. Heard for the umpteenth time, this little nugget of encouragement could encourage one to hate Nietzsche for creating such a cliche.
But, I digress. He was a renowned philosopher who challenged Christian norms and believed in humanity. Most times, only the first sentence of this quote is used. But in reality, like many other popular quotes, this one has often been shortened to imply the meaning of love in the relationship sense.
Camus was responsible for popularizing absurdism, philosophy which holds that human existence is meaningless and irrational and that any attempt to understand the universe will ultimately fail. Seems legit. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. Making female friends will always be difficult. The idea of beauty has been used for centuries to make women feel inferior. Our society is becoming more and more aggressively sexual.
Men are encouraged to objectify women and are bombarded with sexual imagery during so many of their waking moments. People will always notice you and think sexually about you. Reality porn makes guys think a hookup with anyone is just around the corner. There are many negative assumptions about beautiful women. Because of the many legitimate advantages granted to good-looking people, many assume that beautiful women use their looks to get what they want. So they must be spoiled, lazy, or unintelligent.
The pretty girl at the office obviously slept with her boss to get that promotion. Some people assume that beautiful women are more sexually experienced or more promiscuous than others. Some assume that beautiful women are stuck-up or arrogant. Being conscious of these assumptions can help you try to deny them through your actions, but it can also cause you to be afraid to be yourself. It just means that you can move on with your life. Be careful of how far you push me away from you because I just might end up liking it there.
You can only hurt me so many times before I decide to not come back anymore. You know that you have finally healed when you can tell your story and it does not make you cry. If you could read my mind, then you would be in tears from knowing just how much you have hurt me.
If I could show you how terrible you made me feel, you would never be able to look me in the eye again. I thought I lost you, but you were never really there. You cannot ask me to trust you while I am still coughing up water from the last time that you let me drown. Just because you have been hurt badly by someone else, it does not mean that you have the right to hurt me too. I do not deserve to be your punching bag and the outlet for all of your problems. Being hurt can take away your faith and belief in people.
But you cannot let the hurt close you off to the rest of the world. Because if you do, then you will miss out on the things and the people that can help heal you. You can drive yourself completely crazy trying to figure out exactly why you were hurt, or you can build yourself back together and look ahead. Let the past stay in the past. The craziest part about this hurt that I feel is that you probably do not even have the slightest idea that it is there.
I often wonder how many other people there are like me that you must have hurt. Do you do it on purpose, getting some sort of strange gratification from seeing others suffer, or is it just something selfish that you do without realizing how much damage you are inflicting on those around you? That was the last time that I ever let you hurt me.
I will not let you do it again, and if it means having to cut you out of my life, then I will do it this time. You do not always need to physically attack someone in order to hurt them.
Sometimes mean words can hurt a person just as much. Being hurt, I feel like a wounded bird who is unable to fly again. But I am determined to get back up and try again I do not want one bad experience to make me afraid to live my life.
You promised that you would never ever hurt me and yet you managed to do it to me in the worst way possible. Now I know that you were just feeding me with empty promises that you never meant to keep. I do not think that I can take being hurt like this again. My heart is too fragile to take another blow. There are times in life when you will have to accept that there are some people who can only be in your heart and not in your life.
A true sign of maturity is when someone hurts you and instead of instantly trying to hurt them back, you take the time to try to understand their situation. Did you think that it would be fun to hurt me and just not care? Or do you honestly do not know what you are doing to me? Just when I think I cannot hurt any more than I already am, something new happens to make the cut deeper than it was before. I just want to know when I can begin to really heal. When will I be able to move on from all of this?
There is one simple thing that you have to do if you want to stay in my life. Stop hurting me. That is all that you have to do. I never really knew what it was like to hurt until I met you. You seem to have made the act of hurting people into an art form.
What I want to know is, why me? Why did you choose to hurt me? What is it about me that stuck out to you that made you think that I was weak? You hurt me thinking that I would stay silent about it.
But you were wrong. You hurt me, it is true. But I will not be silent. You cannot shame or guilt me into being silent about all the hurt that you have inflicted on me. My hurt is cause by your actions. The least you can do is own what you did. I could never figure out why you sought out to hurt me. Why me? I guess I will never really know. The scars that you left on me have faded away but I will never forget what you did to me and how much it used to hurt. When you are hurting badly enough, it can sometime feel hard to go on.
But it is not the end of your story. Your story does not end here, with you crying and picking up the pieces of your broken heart. This is just a chapter of your story. It is up to you to keep pushing forward so you can find out how your story really ends. Being hurt by someone who you thought was your friend is far worse than being hurt by an enemy that you already knew you had. You cannot stop yourself from hurting. Especially when the wound is still fresh, the pain will ooze out of you and you will struggle to contain all of that hurt inside of you.
If you do anything with the experience of being hurt, it should be to learn from your experiences. All I can do is hope that one day the pain will be gone, even though the memory will still be there. All I want is some sort of sign, some proof that you actually care about my feelings enough to stop hurting them. I need you to prove to me that you will not hurt me again like this.
You have to earn it back. Choose your words wisely, because once you hurt someone with your words, you can never unsay them. Even though you hurt me such a long time ago, I still remember it all as if it happened today.
It hurts when you think that you really know someone, only to realize that they are not who you thought they were. I am not sure what I could have done to ever deserve the hurt that you have inflicted upon me.
Nothing is worse than being disappointed by the person that you never thought would hurt you. Different kinds of people react differently to being hurt. Weak people seek revenge and strong people forgive. You took my heart and broke it.
Now you are gone and I have been left alone to pick up all of the pieces off the floor. Your name used to light up my day. But it no longer makes me smile anymore. Now, hearing your name just makes me want to cry.
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